To start off, I have two questions for you to answer honestly:
Do you have any life goals or personal projects that you keep putting off for another day? Does the guilt of not beginning it nag at you constantly?
Don’t feel alone in these habits- Postponing goals and passions is one of the most common problems people face. I’ve definitely struggled with this issue too, and still do at times, because it’s so easy to get stuck in the trap of telling yourself that you’ll get to it eventually. But, as an example, we all know how that story went in college.
At the beginning of each semester, your professors passed out a syllabus outlining all of the required projects and specific test dates for the upcoming several months. The whole class would know exactly when a paper was due from the first day of school, but how many of us waited until the very last minute to complete any of that work? If you’re not raising your hand, you’re the oddball here.
This experience from college is a metaphor for life. Just like we procrastinate writing a 20-page research paper that’s crucial for getting a good grade in class, we put off important things in our life thinking we’ll have plenty of time to do them in the future. Well, we won’t. Life will get in the way. Things might get messy, and two months of putting off your dreams will suddenly turn into twenty years. You don’t want to be trying to cram in all of your best life experiences at retirement age like you’re trying to cram during an all-nighter for an 8:00 AM test.
I’m not saying that you should dramatically quit your job today, backpack the world, and grow flowing dreadlocks- Unless that’s your heart’s dream, and in which case, go for it! What I am urging you to do is take this one small step:
Take five minutes to focus in on something that makes you truly excited. The type of “excited” where you feel heart pumping, bright-eyed energized. It can be a person, place, thing, goal, whatever! Then ask yourself how you can integrate that more into your daily life, even in the smallest way. Act on these thoughts immediately. Like, right now.
Take me as an example. I completely adore writing, and I’ve been so crazily happy since I started expressing myself on this blog on a regular basis. I could have just put off my happiness and told myself that I’ll start a blog in the future, but I decided I was so sick of putting off my dreams. I wrote my first post right then and there which gave me the excited energy to write another one the next day (and so on).
Writing a couple posts per week might not seem like much now, but let’s do this math. I’m about to turn 25 years-old- If I keep writing only until the young age of 40, then I still wrote regularly for 15 years with a total of about 1,500 blog posts!! I’d be a writing and coaching expert by then!
Now what can you do with that precious time if you take little steps everyday to further your goals? Just start now. Don’t keep making excuses and then feeling guilty about it. Take the teeniest step today and then another one tomorrow, and by the end of the week, you’ll be proud of yourself and rolling in momentum.
Please let me know in the comments below what baby steps you’ll be taking today, alongside me, to further your passions. I’d love to know so that I can keep motivating you along the way!
Have a beautiful day,